We often read about what celebs, philanthropists, and big non-profits are doing to change the world. Nothing wrong with that. But I wanted to share an article I enjoyed because it profiled hometown heroes who don't normally get recognition for the great work they do.
Average Americans all over this country realize the power they have to make a difference in small and big ways. I love hearing what you guys are up to and always feel inspired to know that most give of their time and resources to help others, and in the process realize they are also helping themselves.
There is so much to keep us from being connected to one another these days. We work harder and more hours than ever, families live far apart, we spend way too much time in gridlock traffic, and the close-knit fabric of neighborhoods where every kid was our own and neighbors know each other does seem to be fading away.
True, we have text messaging, e-mail, cheaper long distance and more ways to stay in touch, but too often those modes of communicating lack the intimacy that makes us feel a sense of "humankindness" and a deep connection that I think most of us yearn for. A recent study showed that Americans have fewer close friends than they did decades ago and less people they feel they can confide in. The conclusion of the study was, in short, that people feel lonelier.
I bring all this up because I have always found that service makes me feel more connected with others, my community, my country, and even the world, which incidentally does grow smaller all the time. Perhaps just as importantly it helps me connect with myself, which opens the door to new opportunities and relationships.
The article profiles men, women and kids who are bringing people closer together and living out the truth that we are all on this beautiful journey of life together.
We see philanthropists and celebrities who give to worthy causes and great charities like the Boys and Girls Clubs who not only are following their mission of mentoring children who need it the most, but are constantly expanding to meet the needs of more kids, like bringing their programs to military bases around the nation. You will also read about people whose vacation trips inspired them to send kids in third world countries to school or supply them with much needed shoes. Read about those who bring the joy of music to inner-city kids or a 15 year old who makes sure that soldiers who have made the ultimate sacrifice for their country don't just get "taps" on a recording, but a live performance; teachers whose work is more than just a job; a woman who had used her disability (or different ability you could say) to inspire young children with special needs; those who take their own loss and make sure that other parents have help in finding a missing child or someone to talk to; a soldier just doing his job, a job that entails taking heavy fire so that you can bring your injured brothers and sisters to safety; a nurse who refused to leave her patients even as Katrina raged on. Or how about an elderly woman who just decides to make it her business to share an act of kindness with a neighbor or friend every day.
I hope you read these profiles and feel as I did - how lucky that we live among such angels and that we can make a choice every day to join their ranks. And for those who do get the recognition that others may not, know that you get to shine sometimes because you reflect the light of those around you.
In Thomas Moore's "Care of the Soul" and its companion "SoulMates" he mentions that the "soul thrives under certain conditions, especially intimacy, attachment, and involvement."
It makes sense that when you develop intimate relationships with the outside world, you develop yourself, as even the word intimacy means "profoundly interior" derived from the Latin word inter, meaning "within".
This intimacy is usually thought to mean something done alone with another, but in reality, it is even the act of expressing yourself here on this board that "the deep interiority" of a person is revealed.
Citizen Hunter is a profound part of my development of reaching out to the outside world with bits of myself and I appreciate it when the readers do the same. As a ripple reaches outward, action follows and creates more action, and a community is born.
Thanks Flavia for voicing how the well-being of the community and the indivudual is one and the same.
one more thing...this is my favorite post of yours by far and captures the essence of Citizen Hunter. Beautiful concept and expression.
Posted by: buddy at July 17, 2006 08:45 PMWow! This site has gone from being where I get my info to a natural prozac. It is so wonderful to see and read so much positive, it is so hard to get that these days. Really inspiring stories. Thank you. Thank you.
Posted by: Julie at July 17, 2006 09:22 PMSounds like someone read Robert Putnam's book, Bowling Alone:
http://www.bowlingalone.com/
No, I haven't. Is it worth reading? Tell us about it here or in the reccomended reading area.
Posted by: Flavia at July 18, 2006 09:14 PMWe really live in a wonderful country despite ourselves. Just remember to help when you can.
Posted by: Mike McAlexander at July 20, 2006 10:50 PMAmen
Posted by: Stephen at July 21, 2006 09:57 AMI agree
Posted by: Stephen at July 21, 2006 09:58 AM"where every kid was our own and neighbors know each other"
I believe that every kid is our own and I believe that our neighborhood is global, as much as people would like to believe otherwise. It is no longer an excuse to hide your eyes or look the other way when someone is in trouble in Darfur, or Main Street. People used to call us "bleeding heart liberals" because we tried our best to take care of others. I remember debating for Jimmy Carter in 6th grade homeroom against a Reagan kid. Now we have grown and I can't help but wonder if that little girl I debated against has uninsured children or a husband who has deployed for the 3rd time. Every kid is our own, and every family deserves our care, even if we are called "bleeding hearts". I can think of worse things.
Posted by: Joe at July 21, 2006 11:41 AMIt didn’t take long for Brian Tierney to do exactly what Philadelphia expected. He has used the Philadelphia Newspapers and his PR connections to “SPIN” the truth.
In today’s article about the partnership between Philadelphia Newspapers and Monster.com, Tierney remarks that “Number one and number one are getting together”.
The deal with Monster.com does not benefit the region, and they are not the number one online job source. He has his facts confused. (“CareerBuilder.com Passes Largest Competitor in Revenue and Takes Over #1 Position in Industry”)
Now why is this such a big deal? Because McClatchy specifically dumped the Philadelphia newspapers due to revenue challenges. Brian Tierney pretends like his days of “spinning” public opinion to his advantage are over, but we now in under a month he has proved why he cannot be trusted.
The truth is that Tierney has traded in the #1 Careerbuilder for the #2 Monster because they gave him a big check to do it. How can we trust Tierney to maintain the sanctity of the newsroom, when already it is reporting news to fit the Tierney regime? This is only a tiny blip on the radar, but it touches on something much bigger. Tierney has devoted his life to putting the blinders on the public.